tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879114.post830741002423220385..comments2023-07-02T16:34:26.625+01:00Comments on In my head & around me: The one about being marriedIn my head and around mehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07013160510388092321noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879114.post-43237458227142374812011-10-27T15:04:17.691+01:002011-10-27T15:04:17.691+01:00Well, it might be difficult to blame them. Many be...Well, it might be difficult to blame them. Many believe marriage defines their core essence.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879114.post-6211642144867326052006-12-20T14:20:00.000+01:002006-12-20T14:20:00.000+01:00That is what is called classified aseju(over doing...That is what is called classified aseju(over doing things).<br /><br />Does getting married change the way people should talk and relate with us ni.temmy tayohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07042720448372046992noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879114.post-72250775066852072462006-12-19T15:07:00.000+01:002006-12-19T15:07:00.000+01:00I know nigerians can over do the married woman thi...I know nigerians can over do the married woman thing. I have this one friend who changed so much when she got married all of a sudden we were all too small for her.<br />I have been married for some years and i introduce myself by my first name and hardly Mrs..and people assume I am single and just treat me with levity, but once they find out I am married they are all over me.."madam good morning how the children" or " I didnt know you were married" and the respect level changes ..My annoying male colleagues dont make inappropriate jokes around me cus I am married and I thank God for that..but why can't people just respect people married or not!..ps thanks for coming by my blogchiomahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04971734458299867470noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879114.post-29053608220205528992006-12-18T18:56:00.000+01:002006-12-18T18:56:00.000+01:00Lolll - how could i have stayed away fromyour blog...Lolll - how could i have stayed away fromyour blog for soo long?? :-D I love your writing style<br /><br />And yeah - all these stupid women who think simply being married puts them on a pedestal. The stories I've heard (shaking my head in disgust) - I would have laughed hysterically if the woman said that to me thinking she would win the argument.Noni Mosshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15219595871722435254noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879114.post-16539325653261718342006-12-14T17:19:00.000+01:002006-12-14T17:19:00.000+01:00I will not let anyone insult me because the person...I will not let anyone insult me because the person is married. Married or single we all deserve out respects...Wingshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10957794828169077121noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879114.post-88631035773653347952006-12-14T01:44:00.000+01:002006-12-14T01:44:00.000+01:00what do you see? pfftwhat do you see? pfftAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879114.post-88423882750981876382006-12-11T11:40:00.000+01:002006-12-11T11:40:00.000+01:00Another anonymous 'bullshiter', I see!!!Another anonymous 'bullshiter', I see!!!Demihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00003278350854090621noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879114.post-73833000800535891232006-12-08T19:51:00.000+01:002006-12-08T19:51:00.000+01:00err ma binu but i was hoping that you could blog s...err ma binu but i was hoping that you could blog soon about how your husband that never was came to have the never tag<br />and how you came to be a single mom<br /><br />of course you will wonder who is this nonsense anonymous poster that is asking me foolish private questions...but as they say, ill never know unless i ask...the most you can do is say no<br /><br />eseAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879114.post-45376518163282775492006-12-08T15:25:00.000+01:002006-12-08T15:25:00.000+01:00this married thing shaa....Nigerians!!this married thing shaa....Nigerians!!Aramidehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06903734169544640142noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879114.post-33590245585061550712006-12-07T15:09:00.000+01:002006-12-07T15:09:00.000+01:00I will only be surprised if I get to realise what ...I will only be surprised if I get to realise what Nigerians cant take advantage of, even in irrelavant cases!Naijadudehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17383737455194263039noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879114.post-54349642852463038432006-12-07T10:08:00.000+01:002006-12-07T10:08:00.000+01:00@TLOASCM: Ah, someone that has had THE EXPERIENCE....@TLOASCM: Ah, someone that has had THE EXPERIENCE. How can you accuse her of lying? Don't you know that she is married? LOL! Actually, I think that it's just her nature to be like that. <br /><br />@calabar gal: "I think that flaunting the 'dont you know I'm married' stuff is all finicky!!" You can say that again. Meanwhile, married woman, don't you wear your own halo around your head and demand respect for your status? LOL!<br /><br />@belle: You are quite right. We too do.In my head and around mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07013160510388092321noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879114.post-81096787141677119822006-12-06T23:52:00.000+01:002006-12-06T23:52:00.000+01:00Well I know some ladies overdo it on the married t...Well I know some ladies overdo it on the married thingy. I lost touch with a couple of friends simply cos they were married and no longer wished to be associated with single gals like me then. <br /><br />I think that flaunting the 'dont you know I'm married' stuff is all finicky!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16033736249905118938noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29879114.post-44094204220622774352006-12-06T21:25:00.000+01:002006-12-06T21:25:00.000+01:00wow - I hadn't realised that being married would b...wow - I hadn't realised that being married would be used as a leverage in disputes. So singles like us should go and cry ourselves in the corner, what utter nonsece. <br /><br />Thanks for opening my eyes, I can see why this cousin of mine, who just came over to join her husband in england from nigeria had the boldness to lie and insult me at every chance she gets - just cause she was married. LOL. <br /><br />Enjoyed your post.The Life of a Stranger called mehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10832744663777932132noreply@blogger.com